Then, suddenly, you feel two eyes from across the room staring at you for a little too long. So, the question came to my head "how do girls normally deal with creepy guys?" And while effective, the closeout does take some coordination and slick choreography. How the hell am I going to solve this? How have you been, girlfriend? This is especially frightening at night or even in the evening when I am alone on my way home. Certainly has a ring to it, donchathink? Lately, this guy has been creepyily nice to me and makes me feel VERY uncomfortable. Actually, this happens to me quite often. "Stop staring st that person, you're being rude". If he's the aggressive type of creep who gawks at me like a lion staring at a zebra's azz then I go into cold b*tch mode and do my best to be standoffish so he's completely turned off by my personality. I don't have patience for this shit anymore. But good on you for being strategic. New comments cannot be posted and votes cannot be cast, More posts from the TheGirlSurvivalGuide community, Continue browsing in r/TheGirlSurvivalGuide. The scariest incident happened when I was 14 years old and I noticed an older man sitting right in front of me staring at me. However, if I feel like they could be a threat, I do make eye contact to establish confidence and lack of intimidation. When he tries to yell over to you, become immediately enthralled with the drink specials sign or beer pong game and act like you can’t hear him. He went away. If someone is really weirding me out, I put on my sunglasses and ignore them. They pick on people when they are alone and vulnerable. When faced with a guy who just won’t quit, try throwing in one of these conversation pieces in the mix and watch him run faster than a freshman at house party that’s just been busted: So whether you’re a creep magnet or only have to deal with them once in a while, be sure to keep our guide on hand to ensure one doesn’t ruin your night. Go for the eyes, go for the nuts, go for the sensitive parts under the arm around the tricep area, break the nose, go for the throat, bite, spit, scream, scratch--whatever it takes. As you’re on the floor “trying to find them,” discretely crawl away from your original location. I ran because I panicked thinking that he might be behind me, chasing me. Further, if you ever see a woman who looks uncomfortable with a stranger staring at her, fucking CALL HIM OUT. 0 0. And I'm always confident and at peace with knowing I will kill or maim without hesitation if someone attacks me--that's what makes me feel confident that I could fight a grown man and stand to win. However, if the creep seems like he could become a full-fledged stalker, taking more serious measures may be necessary. I just hope it doesn't escalate to the point where I would have to use force. But I don't look down or try to seem shy or small. Hi, well uh… I just found your blog searching up “How to deal with creepy guys.” I am 15 (almost 16) and a sophemore. !”. I still don't fancy taking the train at night, though I still have to do so. One guy kept staring at me for about 20 minutes, then we had a layover and he came over and asked if I had a boyfriend. I won't stop taking the train or the bus when it's dark or even at night. While this may be well established, a lesser known fact is that the “play it cool” effect works in reverse as well. Another dude came to lift weights at the bus stop I was waiting at one time (wtf? Maybe I'll tilt my chin a little higher and furrow my brow some so it looks like I have an attitude on me. All of the dipshits I've encountered so far just get unnerved and look away. If there are enough people around that I don't feel threatened, death stare + call out combo works wonders. She’ll probably be embarrassed that she’s “forgotten” you and go along with it. All Rights Reserved. I really resonate with your answer because I also feel the same way. The free woman mindset can be really helpful! I won't let those men limit my ways of living. I stay alert for shadowy or secluded places where I could be jumped. Yeah, that one all the way on the top shelf; can you see it?” While he’s squinting and leaning in to read it, you’re running and hiding somewhere far away. Vámonos! So whether you’re a creep magnet or only have to deal with them once in a while, be sure to keep our guide on hand to ensure one doesn’t ruin your night. Actually, let’s say “code words,” because there are more than enough uncomfortable and emergency situations that can arise during a night out that may not always be, uh, appropriate to address out loud. Cheers, collegiettes! How to look bitchy, innocent (helps when men annoyed with me or when they actually approached me), confident. When I looked up he spoke to me. Puppies and cupcakes are pretty high on the list as well. !” and converse with her until your pushy pursuer finds another girl to hit on. The tough part though is that only applies in busy public places. Some guys just don’t get it. Short I'm new to this and usually I ignore their advances or comments, especially when it's one person in a large group but recently I've had someone put their tip in my shirt and another person try and kiss me on the way out.

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